Only YOU!

There’s lots of dancing, singing, chatting, and partying out there in the world, but what happens if you just want to be a little quiet and alone time? What if what you really need is a calm nest and a good book? And who is that in our library tree? Could it be…the author of today’s book? YES!

We read Only, written and illustrated by Airlie Anderson (Hachette Book Group, 2024). The tree is lively with Singy, Squawky, Tappy, Flappy, Chippy, and Flippy, who are full of songs, games, and cheer. But it’s all too much for Only, who flies away to build a quiet nest, close the door, and read. While the other birds can’t figure out why Only wants to be quiet and alone, Squawky stops by for a visit. As it turns out, hanging out and doing things doesn’t always have to be loud. And, equally importantly, being alone doesn’t necessarily mean being lonely!

We were so excited to have Airlie Anderson come to our library to share Only! Definitely  Check out my interview with her at the end of the post!

You’ll need:

  • 1 oatmeal container
  • Construction paper
  • 1 pipe cleaners
  • Scissors, glue, and tape for construction
  • Markers for decorating

This project is a fairly simple oatmeal container bird, but as a nod to one of Only’s favorite quiet time activities, we added a little book! Did you notice the cover? That’s right! It’s one of Airle’s other books, Neither!

We added one more touch to the project. In the book, Only and Squawky listen to music together wearing headphones. We loved Airlie’s illustration so much, as well as the concept of sharing an experience quietly together, that we added foam headphones kids could wear too!

To make these, you’ll need some self adhesive foam and two pipe cleaners. Lay two sheets of foam on top of one another, then cut a pair of circles and two strips (for a total of 4 circles and 2 strips). Peel the backing off one set and lay everything sticky side up. Place the strip on top of the two circles, then lay the two pipe cleaners along the length of the strip like so:

Peel the backing off the remaining pieces, then place them sticky side down on the first set. Bend the pipe cleaners to fit around your head, and you’re done. Enjoy your time with your new friend!

I can’t recommend Airlie enough for a library visit. She is funny, engaging, wonderful with the kids, and jumps right into the craft project. In fact, this is the second time she’s come to a Cotsen story time and we hope to have her back for many more!

Hi Airlie! Welcome back to Pop Goes the Page! How are you doing?

I’m having a happy day, thank you! Glad to be back at Pop Goes the Page.

How did the concept of this book come to be?

The concept of Only came to me during quarantine, during which I discovered that I am not as much of an introvert as I once thought. Not only do I enjoy alone time, I also like being around crowds, in public. I wanted to make a book about experiencing both of those dynamics, and how different characters enjoy various levels of that.

In addition to Only, there are also birds named Singy, Squawky, Tappy, Flappy, Chippy, and Flippy. Which one is most like you?

I love this question! I hadn’t thought of that before. But now that you mention it, I’m most like Squawky. Squawky is the bird who ventures into the quiet nest because they don’t feel like playing bird ball at that moment.

Only the bird has a pretty amazing “quiet nest” stocked with toys and activities. What would your personal quiet nest include?

My quiet nest would look a lot like Only’s quiet nest, except that I don’t know how to knit! But I enjoy drawing balls of yarn. So definitely stacks of books (I’m currently reading one of Carrie Fisher’s memoirs), art supplies, headphones, and journals. I would add a yoga mat and one of those electric pots for making hot water for tea.

What are you working on now?

Right now I’m “filling the well” of creativity, so for me that means reading lots of different kinds of books, for grown-ups and kids. I’ve been watching movies from the early Hollywood era — I feel quite drawn to them for some mysterious reason. Sometimes story ideas come from unexpected places, so I follow my bliss when it comes to that. Have you seen His Girl Friday? Amazing. The picture book that I have on deck is still developing, and it involves rodents. I am super excited about it!

Be YOU!

be youIt doesn’t matter if you are yellow, red, green, this, that, rather, or neither. Just be YOU!

We read Neither by Airlie Anderson (Little, Brown, 2018). Neither the green bunny bird doesn’t fit into the tidy world of blue “This” bunnies or yellow “That” birds. Not rabbity or birdy enough, Neither is asked to leave. After a long flight, Neither lands in The Land of All, where creatures of all kinds live and play happily together.  In The Land of All, everyone is welcome. And yeah, this book totally ROCKS!

We were sooooo excited to have author and illustrator Airlie Anderson visit our library for a fabulous story time. There’s an interview with her after the project part of the post. And after that? We’ll be giving away 3 signed copies of Neither to lucky blog readers!

You’ll need:

  • Poster board
  • Elastic string
  • Costume decorating supplies (more on this below!)
  • Scissors, tape, and glue for construction
  • Markers for decorating

We kept the construction of this project simple – ears and wings – so kids could dedicate all of their time to decorating. While you can easily make wings out of poster board, we decided to test out the “Colorations Decorate Your Own Wings” from Discount School Supply (set of 12 is $20). The wing span is 22.5″ wide. Here’s a poster board version so you can get an idea of the shape:

neither butterfly wings templateYou can also see how the wings are rigged with loops of elastic cord, so the kids can just slide them on like a backpack. If butterfly wings are not your cup of tea, you can easily turn the butterfly wing shape into bird wings like so…

neither bird wings template

The ears were a simple poster board head band with whatever ears you would like. As you will soon seen, bunny and kitty ears were very popular, though we did have a couple unicorns. We also has tails the kids could tuck into the back of their pants, or attach round their waist with elastic cord.

When your wings, ears, and tails are selected, decorate! We offered metallic , sparkle stems, pipe cleaners, pom-poms, construction paper, self-adhesive foam shapes, crepe paper streamers, iridescent ribbon, color masking tapee, and the Bling Bin! Airlie also walked around, Sharpie in hand, to customize wings and headbands:

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I caught up with the amazing Airlie Anderson after story time, and asked her a few questions…

airlie andersonPlease tell us a little about yourself!

Hi everyone! I’m Airlie, named after my grandma whose parents were Scottish. I was born and raised in California, and now live just outside of Princeton, New Jersey. I love it here! Except when it’s humid.

I was that little kid who was always drawing, and just never stopped. One of my favorite things to do is to sit in a busy café and draw in my sketchbook. My studio is in a sort of hallway in our house, so I can work while our 2 year old son naps.

How did the concept for Neither first occur to you?

I had a dream about an animal that had a mix of characteristics, and in the dream I thought, “This should be a book, and it will be called Neither.” At the time, I was teaching art to a class of middle school students, and they were just so inspiring. That dream was definitely influenced by them!

When it came to designing the main character of Neither, there were so many animal combinations to choose from! How did you finally arrive at the bird bunny?

In my Neither Dream, the character was mostly cat and butterfly, and it was a grey color. But when I experimented with sketches of that character, it looked too precious, so cute. I wanted it to look slightly more awkward, with clear qualities of two different easily recognizable animals. So bunny bird it was! Also I felt that I could make the bunnies blue for some reason, and the birds could be yellow of course. Then Neither would be boldly green. It felt just right.

The colors in this book are gorgeous! What medium did you use to create it?

Oh, thank you! I used gouache, a super saturated an opaque watercolor. It reproduces nicely, doesn’t it? I like to sketch on regular ol’ printer paper and then use a light box to trace each drawing, with paint, onto watercolor paper. Then I put lots of layers of gouache on. Green is a tricky color to reproduce, though, especially Neither’s bright lime green coat. So the excellent people at my publisher suggested an extra ink in the printing process that would make that beautiful shade of green. I was thrilled by this news, and it turned out just delightfully.

What sort of feedback have you received about this story?

Oh, I have received the most wonderful messages about Neither, from people of many different ages and backgrounds. I recently received an email from a fifty-five year old gentleman who works in an LGBTQ community center in Florida, who said the book made him cry happy tears. I hear from parents of children who don’t feel they fit in, and they tell me how Neither is their favorite bedtime book. These messages mean the world to me — the thought of people sharing this story and having a lovely experience because of it is wonderful.

I heard a rumor that Neither is going to be made into a musical! Is this true???

Yes, oh my gosh!!! What a dream come true! Lifeline Theater in Chicago is producing Neither as a musical, to premier in the spring of 2020. Coincidentally/magically, the person writing the stage version has recently moved from Chicago to Princeton and works with mutual friends — so we get to share ideas over coffee!

What are you working on now?

I have two picture book sketches with my agent right now, one about the Easter Bunny and one about sea creatures. I’m also working on a graphic novel, which is a total passion project and has been shouting at me for years to be written. I’m finally listening!


And now it’s time for a FABULOUS book giveaway! We have 3 autographed copies of Neither (Little, Brown, 2017) to share! Just e-mail cotsenevents@princeton.edu with your name, and the initials of someone you think is unlike any other. We’ll put all the entries in a hat and draw 3 winners at random on Tuesday, July 2nd. Good luck!